Potty Training

Dear Annie,
I am hoping to start my three year old in Preschool. The problem is, he is not yet potty trained. I have been encouraging him to use the potty, but he just doesn't seem interested! The Preschool I have in mind is not licensed for diaper changing and won't accept him if he is not in underpants. What should I do?
Signed, Discouraged Debbie

Dear Discouraged Debbie,
The first thing I would say is - relax! Your son can feel your frustration. He will potty train when he is ready and the more pressure you put on him, the more he may resist. If he is not trained at the time you are ready to send him to Preschool, why don't you find a Preschool that is licensed by the State and approved by the Health Department to change diapers? I have watched children, over the past 22 years, eagerly use the potty when they observe their peers doing the same! The combination of your more relaxed attitude and the encouragement of teachers and little friends who are all learning at the same time, will make it happen!
Signed, Annie